Melinda Briana Epler

In her practical and timely new book HOW TO BE AN ALLY: Actions You Can Take for a Stronger, Happier Workplace, diversity and inclusion expert and CEO of Change Catalyst Melinda Briana Epler offers a playbook for much-needed change in the workplace—change to ensure everyone feels safe, valued, and able to thrive.

1. Learn, unlearn, and relearn. Learn to recognize historical harm and its intergenerational impact, unlearn biases from history and cultural marginalization, and relearn from new perspectives.
2. Do no harm—understand and correct our biases. Work to change your behaviors and actions to avoid unintentional harm.
3. Recognize and overcome microaggressions. Develop your awareness and empathy skills to identify and eliminate these toxic behaviors.
4. Advocate for people. Step up and advocate in small, everyday ways that can make big differences in people’s lives.
5. Stand up for what’s right. Intervene to stop microaggressions and support people who have been harmed.
6. Lead the change. When you’re ready, take action to lead change in your work, on your team(s), and in your workplace.
7. Transform your organization, industry, and society. Address biases and inequities in your company and in the broader world.

The key to true diversity, equity, and inclusion is allyship. Uniquely insightful and deeply needed, HOW TO BE AN ALLY humanizes diversity and inclusion and facilitates greater empathy and understanding between people of all identities. Through the power of allyship, we can all correct imbalances in opportunity and create a better workplace for ourselves and our colleagues.

Based on Melinda’s popular TED talk, this workshop provides actionable steps anyone can take to be a better ally and advocate for underrepresented people in the workplace. A roadmap for all of us to lead with empathy and become better allies for each other.

In order to build empathy and understanding, we discuss some experiences colleagues might be going through, such as tokenism, impostor syndrome, stereotype threat, biases, microaggressions, harassment, bullying, marginalization and systemic inequities. Then we'll focus on solutions: learning ways to avoid unintentionally offending or harming people, identifying key biases and microaggressions and their effects, developing a deeper understanding of allyship and empathy, hearing several examples of allyship and advocacy, and committing to tangible, actionable steps to be a better ally and advocate for underrepresented people in the workplace.

During this interactive workshop, participants work through our Allyship Canvas, a practical guide for anyone to apply the concepts of allyship and develop their own plan for becoming a better ally. By the end of the session, attendees commit to one another to take specific actions. For people of all genders, races, ethnicities, religions, ages, disabilities, and other identities.

We'll customize this training with you to ensure we're achieving your desired outcomes, work with you on a communications plan, debrief with you following each training, and recommend ways to continue engaging the team around this topic.

Created for employee resource groups, Diversity and Inclusion Advocates, executives, managers and other internal advocates to learn how to build more allies and advocates across the organization. This is a highly interactive workshop where attendees (individuals and teams) work through a roadmap for building allies.

We walk through the Stages of Allyship, so that leaders can identify where individuals might be on their allyship journey. We discuss ideal programs or interventions that are appropriate at each stage of allyship. We also spend a bit of time discussing organizational and behavior change principles, so leaders are equipped with a foundation for understanding of how organizational change happens.

Using an Activating Allies Canvas, participants work in small groups to design a plan for supporting allies at different Stages of Allyship, and help move them to the next stage. They begin to work through the first steps of enacting their plan together: from the activities they might launch, resources they’ll need, ways they'll build influence and community, communications channels, and more.

At the end of this session, leaders have a rough roadmap for cultivating allies across their team, organization, or group, with tangible next steps clearly outlined. We'll customize this training with you to ensure we're achieving your desired outcomes, work with you on communications plan, debrief with you following each training, and recommend ways to continue engaging the team around this topic.

This interactive session builds understanding about biases, where they come from, and how to interrupt them. We'll also address what microaggressions are, how they make people feel, and how to interrupt them in ourselves. We'll discuss tactics for interrupting microaggressions committed by others, ways to mitigate biases in how we go about our work, and strategies for mitigating biases and microaggressions on teams. In small group work, participants will put tools and scripts they have learned into practice. At the end of the session, the group will make commitments to one another to take action via a Commitment Wall.

Once you hire underrepresented talent and create a diverse team, how do you ensure they are engaged, committed and feel like they belong? We'll customize this workshop to address specific topics based on your desired outcomes. These may include: professional development programs, developing or improving ERGs, inclusive physical spaces, inclusive remote cultures, inclusive team building, benefits packages, pay and promotion equity auditing, increasing psychological safety, succession planning, and many other opportunities to ensure underrepresented talent feels safe, welcomed, included and a sense of belonging at your company.

In this session, we work with team managers, executives or groups to create more inclusive teams. We discuss methods for creating welcoming team environments; building psychological safety; engaging colleagues through opportunities, processes and programs; retaining team members through transparency and authenticity, growth opportunities, and pathways for professional development; and creating a culture where everyone is valued for their unique experience and expertise and feels they belong. We walk through some key inclusive leadership skills, share best practices for modeling DEI for your team, as well as strategies for holding individuals accountable for building an inclusive team together, and we leave time to work through questions and troubleshoot key blockers for leaders.

Throughout this session, participants will have a worksheet where they will begin to develop their Inclusive Team Roadmap. Participants will start to work through what path they might take with their team to create a culture of inclusion and allyship. At the end of this session, leaders will have a rough roadmap for building inclusion across their teams, with tangible next steps outlined.

At one time or another, most people experience Impostor Syndrome, that feeling that you are a fraud, where you doubt your expertise and accomplishments that qualify you to be where you are. Unfortunately people who are underrepresented experience this more often, due to being "the only," facing multiple barriers and biases, experiencing microaggressions and trauma, taxed with stereotype threat or tokenism, etc. In this workshop, we recognize some of the reasons for impostor syndrome, and the active work to disrupt it in ourselves. Our individual toolkit includes embodied presence and authenticity, personal storytelling, facing fears by building resilience and courage, and building true support structures. By the end of this session, participants will have worked through some of their own impostor syndrome and have a set of new tools they can use when impostor syndrome arises in the future.

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